As we journey through life, we often accumulate possessions, achievements, and experiences. Yet, when all is said and done, the only things we truly carry with us are the memories we've made and the connections we've forged.
We often wonder: is accumulating wealth or gaining power a true achievement? Or is it something else entirely, like the ability to influence decisions that affect many lives? The answer depends on one’s personal understanding of life, as well as the stage of life they are in. That's why everyone has a unique perspective.
Over time, however, I’ve come to realize that what truly matters—what I now consider a measure of success—is human connection, love, and friendship. These elements are immeasurable, and that is what makes them so fulfilling. Material wealth can always be quantified; a millionaire will always be outdone by a billionaire. But love and friendship cannot be reduced to numbers. That’s why they offer a deeper, lasting satisfaction.
Here we are not talking about those telephone numbers, Facebook connections or followers on social media who regularly like your posts. Real connections are those who are available in time of your need. They may not be present to praise each of your small achievements, but would never let you down in any difficult situation. They are the people whom you can trust to confide with your internal struggles, reveal without fear the biggest of your mistakes, and seek suggestions. They do not claim any right over you but are happy to extend a helping hand in times of trouble. They will be the friends who will miss you in your absence, and the void you have created will not be filled by others in their life. A permanent place will remain for you in their heart.
Even in social circles, only when you make others feel important, and give them due respect and genuine attention, do they stay with you forever. You will remain important in their lives not because you have given them a bunch of money, but for the human touch you have imparted to them. Therefore, the most memorable and revered figures in history have not been those who amassed great fortunes or held powerful positions, but those who touched lives in meaningful ways. Consider Mahatma Gandhi, Mother Teresa, or Abraham Lincoln—individuals whose true greatness lay in their ability to connect with humanity.
If we begin to view life through this lens, everything changes. There would be no rat race, no betrayals for power. You wouldn’t need to flaunt the wealth you’ve earned, nor would you feel the pressure to compete. The world may continue on its familiar course, but you wouldn’t be racing along with it.
Try seeing others as friends or fellow human beings, not as customers or colleagues who can be of benefit. Infuse that human connection into everything you do, and you’ll experience a profound sense of satisfaction and peace.
