Introspection: Success is reducing the difference between 'Can' and 'Will'

Rohit Vadhwana Wednesday 08th January 2025 06:42 EST
 

Often, we say, "I can do this." But this 'can' does not necessarily lead to action unless accompanied by a firm commitment: "I will do this," followed by actually doing it. The gap between 'can' and 'will' is the defining line between success and failure. It separates the potential to achieve from the effort required to make things happen.

For example, possessing the ability to sing well does not guarantee one will perform well. Despite having the talent and skill, a singer needs to rehearse regularly, synchronize with the music, show up for performances, and pour their heart into the art to produce exceptional results. Hence, the 'can' is merely a possibility, while the 'will' is the reality brought to life.

Similarly, all of us can wake up early, establish an impactful morning routine, and have an energetic start to the day. The schedule could include prayer, meditation, exercise, and a nutritious breakfast. However, this does not mean we all will implement such a routine in our daily lives. Why? Because while we 'can,' we often lack the determination to translate it into action.

An interesting aspect of this dynamic is that until you start doing something, you cannot accurately assess your ability to perform it. Your belief about what you can do may not align with reality. In fact, your actual capacity might be greater—or lesser—than you imagine. But until you commit to action—until you implement your will—you will never know your true potential. Therefore, the next time you say, "I can do this," ask yourself: "Have I ever tried doing it?"

For instance, consider someone who believes they can write a book. They may have the creativity, language skills, and brilliant ideas, but unless they sit down and start drafting pages, that potential remains unrealized. Interestingly, as they continue writing, they might discover not only that they 'can' write, but that their ability improves with practice, eventually transforming them into a proficient author. Action strengthens ability. If you 'will' run daily, your 'can' to run farther and faster will naturally increase over time.

This difference between 'can' and 'will' often holds us back from achieving our most desired goals. Those who bridge this gap—who consistently convert their 'can' into 'will'—are the ones who find success in their endeavors. Remember, success is not about having potential alone; it is about having the discipline and determination to act on it. 


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