Often, we receive favours from people around us. They put in effort to help us during critical times of need. It goes without saying that such acts require their time and energy. But how can we truly show our appreciation for what they have done for us?
Sometimes, you can simply offer payment for the work they have done, especially if they are in need of money. However, if they are well-off or payment is not appropriate, the decision becomes even more challenging.
Thankfully, there are certain ways to express gratitude that are universally well-received.
One timeless way is writing a handwritten thank-you note. It’s an age-old method to show appreciation and has always been well-received. Especially in today's digital age, where people often send wedding invitations via WhatsApp, taking the effort to draft a heartfelt message on a beautiful piece of paper, in your own handwriting, stands out. The recipient cannot overlook such a thoughtful gesture.
Another effective approach is visiting the person personally—at their office or residence—and thanking them face-to-face. You can accompany your visit with a bouquet of flowers or a box of sweets, if appropriate. Taking the time to meet them personally demonstrates your respect and genuine appreciation for their help.
You can also acknowledge their help or favour publicly, in the presence of others, and express your gratitude openly. Saying "thank you" privately and expressing it in front of others have different impacts. When you thank someone publicly, it shows that you truly value their efforts. Even if the person is not one to seek praise, such a gesture proves your sincerity and gratitude for their act of kindness.
Try one or all of these methods if someone has helped you at a critical juncture in your life or has done a favour that brought positive changes to your life. Don’t let these acts of kindness go unacknowledged. Being ungrateful is not just a poor attitude; it can also feel insulting to the person who extended a helping hand.
