I, recently visited the Regeneration Project at Shree Swaminarayan Temple, Willesden, to represent the High Commission of India, UK. The Regeneration Project is completed this month at the cost of GBP 9.99 million-and offers free community service. The Temple is under Shree Narayandev Temple of Bhuj and was constructed in 1975. Initially, the Pooja (ceremonies and rituals) started in a church but understanding the sentimental value of the Hindu diaspora, in 1988 it was re-furbished to a traditional Hindu temple. Active support from the community has played an important role in building, expanding and maintaining this temple. Today, various activities are conducted on the premises of this ceremonious institution.
Approved by the Brent Council, this Regeneration Project involves sheltered old age care homes for elderly people. The rooms are independent units with facilities of kitchen-let, washroom and basic furniture. In addition to the above, it also offers a community kitchen, open recreational area, library and other facilities where, I was told that a community kitchen will serve two hot meals a day and provide various engagements for the inmates. The Council has also recognized this project and will extend its support to the initiative through provision of counselling sessions.
Old age is the withering phase of adulthood marred by isolation, depression and in certain circumstances, physical and mental breakdowns as well. This often means that they require emotional, mental and, physical support. Medical needs and psychological care is a sine qua none at this stage of life. At a time when nuclear families have increasingly become a dominant feature of our present day social construct, our care homes need more support than ever. The western world is challenged by an increase in the ageing population. But India also has a proportion of retired people to provide social security to when an aspirational next generation strives to live as expats in different parts of the globalised village for professional reasons. This means that our parents need that extra TLC. Developed countries have been fast in providing old-age care facilities with government support and also through social sector initiatives. But in India, retirement homes, old age care homes or regeneration projects are yet to gain that traction.
The social structure of India does not easily accept the concept of old people living separately on their own, away from family and children. Although in reality, such cases are increasing, it is still a taboo to send parents in retirement homes with stigma and shame associated with the concept. It needs to be understood that such retirement homes are not free facilities like vruddhashrams and therefore, there is no need to feel ashamed in opting for old age care homes. In fact, such premises are well equipped with old age-friendly facilities. They schedule activities for the wellness and entertainment of elders. Library, community centre, yoga, medical and counselling related amenities are generally included in premises of retirement homes. The company of same age group people gives comfort to develop social bonding with other inmates.
Shree Swaminarayan Temple, Willesden is an example of a living bridge that endeavours to build an exciting future for the whole community.
(Expressed opinions are personal.)
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