Asian Voice and Gujarat Samachar, along with Vishwa Hindu Parishad, Ilford, organised the Shravan Sanman and Vadil Sanman Awards at Ilford Hall on March 19. Twenty two were honoured for their services towards their parents and elders. The awards also featured around 56 people over the age of 80, being honoured with Vadil Sanman. MD and Chairman of Trident India Ltd, Jatin Parekh was the keynote speaker of the event, besides chief guest, Leader of the Redbridge Council, Jas Athwal, and Councillor Dev Sharma were present.
The evening started with prayers by the children of VHP centre. A prayer was sung by Monaben of VHP, followed by prayers from Vinaya Sharma, Sheelaben Rupal, Darshan Lal Chodha and Manmohan Bhalla. VHP Secretary Darshan Chodha gave a brief welcome speech. Elucidating the details of the event, programme co-ordinator and Gujarat Samachar News Editor Kamal Rao said, “In an effort to fill colours in the lives of our elders who give us their all, we started this award 5 years ago at Sangat Centre, Harrow. Ever since, Vadil Sanman has been held in Harrow, Croydon, Leicester, Preston and Manchester, where more than 500 elders have been honoured. However, taking inspiration from Jatin Parekh, we decided to honour people who lovingly and willingly serve their elders or 'challenged' people.”
Jatin Parekh said, “No matter how much a person strives, if his work is respected and finds motivation, it inspires him to do more. I am proud of the beliefs that are being put into practice here today and I know it will go a long way in future, for which, I congratulate Asian Voice and Gujarat Samachar.” In his emotional speech, he said, “People grow up to become doctors, scientists, teachers, etc., but it is their parent's contribution that holds the real key to their success. Not even million pounds can give the gratification that is gained by serving your parents. A mother is someone who will whack you, yes, but she will never let anyone else lay a finger on you. She will stay hungry to feed you. A mother nurses us in her womb for 9 months. Tie a 6 pound belt on your waist and you will know what pains she went through. The second most important institution is our teacher. It is what they teach us that makes us the person the world sees. The third is the society; that provides us with schools, hospitals, libraries, etc. When ever you reach your goal in life, I want you to reflect on these three institutions. I am thankful to Asian Voice and Gujarat Samachar for such a beautiful programme and congratulations to all those honoured.”
Assistant Secretary of Vishwa Hindu Parishad, Alok Upadhyay shared a few words regarding the significance and the works carried out by the VHP Ilford Temple. He said, “Both, the temple and the community run classes on different languages. Gatherings are held for youngsters of marriageable ages to socialise. The temple has engaged in several charity works over the years. Recently, a plot near the temple was bought, for which, several big-hearted people generously donated money, and leaders lent money on zero interest. Our institution needs and appreciates your generous donations, and I request all of you to donate with an open heart. The temple belongs to all of us and requires all of you to participate in the activities carried out by our community.”
Publisher/Editor of Asian Voice and Gujarat Samachar, CB Patel addressed the guests saying, “Vishwa Hindu Parishad is doing some major work here. Elders are often ignored. If you neglect your parents, your kids will do the same to you. Our guest Jatinbhai Parekh came all the way from India to attend Shravan Sanman programme, for which I can't thank him enough. He said beautiful things in his address. A temple is a significant part of the society. I am thankful to VHP for this evening and congratulate Kamal Rao and Kokilaben for the successful programme. I would also want to mention Bhikhubhai and Vijaybhai of Waymade Healthcare, for the way they serve their mother Shantaba.”
Councillor Dev Sharma said, “I am exceptionally happy to be a part of Shravan and Vadil Sanman, organised by Gujarat Samachar and Asian Voice. Indian culture promotes respect for the elders and taking care of them. This is what we have been taught and this is what we have followed for generations. Our scriptures dictate 'Matru Devo Bhava' and 'Pitru Devo Bhava'. There are no bigger Gods than our parents. I congratulate Gujarat Samachar and Asian Voice for a delightful event. I also extend my gratitude to Vishwa Hindu Parishad, Ilford, for their support.”
Country's youngest council leader and leader of the Redbridge council, Jas Athwal, greeted the audience with a cheerful 'Kem Cho?' “Our youths have contributed in a big way to our society. They have taken over the virtues of serving the society. Looking at our programme and our people today, I feel the tradition still cares for their relatives and family and make sure their quality of life is maintained. I am happy our society still believes in serving others. I respect every person who tends their family. I thank Vishwa Hindu Parishad Temple, Gujarat Samachar and Asian Voice for honouring our unsung heroes.”
Concluding the event, Managing Editor for Gujarat Samachar, Kokilaben acknowledged fellow colleague Surendrabhai Patel for doing his best in caring for his mother Manibaa, who lost her life recently. She also congratulated Dileepbhai and Pannaben Shah for taking care of the special needs of their differently-abled son Nishit, Rajshriben and husband Hiteshbhai for being attentive kids to their elderly parents Gordhandas Patel MBE and Kamlaben Patel.
At the end of the evening, Manmohan Bhalla thanked Yogesh Mehta for supporting the event and arranging sound system at the eleventh hour.
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A Glimpse into Shravan Sanman
By Yatra Desai
The hosting of the Shravan Sanman held in Ilford last month to honour those who have provided immense care for their loved ones or those in need was a moment of pride for the young generation. The event was not just about showing gratitude to others for their service but it was a chance to remind ourselves of the difference we can make to someones’ life by simply being there for others.
Among the nominees were me and my sister who had been nominated for the care we had provided to our deceased grandfather Dr Shantilal Bhavsar as young teenagers. Having developed epilepsy and dementia from the shock of losing his beloved wife and son in a short space of time, my grandfather had become both physically and mentally weak. Over the years I realised that caring for someone is not just about physically supporting someone in their day to day activities but it is about the emotional support we can provide to alleviate the pain and loneliness that others may feel.
Observing all the daughters, sons, couples and even parents that had been the pillar of support for their families was an exceptional sight. The event was a true depiction of the power and strength of our culture that has successfully been passed on to the younger generation through the teachings of our parents and senior family members. The importance of having elders in the family was also highlighted through the Vadil Sanman ceremony, where awards were distributed to those individuals that were a true inspiration to the society. It was truly mesmerizing to see numerous grandparents proudly receive their awards for the valuable contribution they have given to both their communities and families. The liveliness and fitness of the nominees, especially those over ninety was highly astounding. Despite being away from their ancestral background, our elders have adjusted to this modern day society; an indication of their strong will power and positive thinking. By providing immense knowledge and sharing invaluable experiences, our elders have continuously guided us to the right path and taught us how to live, love and laugh. They are the soul of our families and the key to our happiness.
All in all, the combination of these two honourable events symbolized the unity of the Asian community within Britain. By showing gratitude to the younger generation and respect to the elder generation, we have shown the strength of our values and cultural roots. In future events, it would be ideal to have some nominees speak out about their experiences and share some stories, as this would give a personal touch to the event. In addition, having a presentation of pictures in the background throughout the event would also be visually stimulating for the audience and give them a realistic view into the day of a nominee’s life. Overall, the event was a success and I hope it will encourage upcoming generations to serve their community and families selflessly.
